It’s YOUR wedding – you get to make the rules, and that includes what traditions you incorporate into your day, and which ones you don’t. We’ve seen a decline in the traditions listed below, and are here to support you 100% with whatever you vibe with!
Toasts during reception
At BRIK Venue, we are seeing more and more of our couples choosing to do their toasts with their friends and family at their Welcome Dinner instead on during the reception. During the reception, the bride and groom use that time to thank all their guests for coming and for all the love and support in the room. Typically, this gets the party started sooner and the dance floor stays open longer!
Traditional wedding dresses
A white dress will always be the one tradition a bride will hold on to. We now see lots of pattern, floral embroidery, and even color added in to express their personality. What we are loving even more is the dress change during the reception to a shorter, sassier dress. The tradition of bustling the train on the wedding dress for the dance party is becoming extinct.
Wedding cake
Desserts are the new cake! Our couples are opting for a small cake for just the two of them, and then have a table of sweets and desserts for their guests. During the Texas summers, we’ve also seen ice cream carts as a fun dessert option. And during the fall and winter months, a s’mores bar has always been a hit with the guests.
Matching bridesmaids dresses and suits
Every so often, you’ll see a wedding where all the bridesmaids have on the exact same dress in the same color. We’re seeing different styles of dresses in the same color, or different shades of the same color. Or we’re seeing different styles and colors that coordinate and compliment each other. And let’s not leave out the guys – pops of color have been creeping into suit jackets, pocket squares, socks and even the shoes!
Garter and bouquet toss
All the single ladies and gentlemen – come to the dance floor! Not anymore. Brides and grooms are scratching this long standing tradition, as it just gives everyone the ick and makes people uncomfortable. Use that bridal bouquet as part of the table decor on the head table! Instead of embarrassing their single guests, couples are finding ways to incorporate everyone into the festivities. A live sketch artist or chain stitcher or a hookah lounge are all good options.
What wedding traditions are you keeping, and what traditions do you think have gone out of style?
